Comments on: My fiancee’ has asked me to move with him to Mexico….HELP!!!? http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help Fri, 02 Jul 2010 07:28:30 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: William M http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1085 William M Fri, 11 Dec 2009 20:12:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1085 well first of all I hate to be in your shoes. before I start why and,what are the reasons he wants to move to Mexico?Does he know how you feel? if not you better let him know. love works both ways,what I mean is if he loves you why is he moving you away from your dreams and family! The bottom line is up to you. It a decision that you can only make because it is going to affect the rest of your life. If you love something let it go, and if it comes back it was meant to be but if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be! It's better to have loved and lost then never have loved! I think that you learn from your first love but I don't think you should marry your first love. I married my first love I .I have been married 22 years and I wish that I would have lived live better. I was 16 years when I met her.<br><b>References : </b><br> well first of all I hate to be in your shoes. before I start why and,what are the reasons he wants to move to Mexico?Does he know how you feel? if not you better let him know. love works both ways,what I mean is if he loves you why is he moving you away from your dreams and family! The bottom line is up to you. It a decision that you can only make because it is going to affect the rest of your life. If you love something let it go, and if it comes back it was meant to be but if it doesn’t it wasn’t meant to be! It’s better to have loved and lost then never have loved! I think that you learn from your first love but I don’t think you should marry your first love. I married my first love I .I have been married 22 years and I wish that I would have lived live better. I was 16 years when I met her.
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]]> By: chaoskid http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1084 chaoskid Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:42:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1084 Oh Girl. The only reason he wants you there is to have you under his thumb. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! Keep your freedom and your sanity. Stay where you belong. In America.<br><b>References : </b><br>Just my own opinion. Oh Girl. The only reason he wants you there is to have you under his thumb. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! Keep your freedom and your sanity. Stay where you belong. In America.
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Just my own opinion.

]]> By: Lydia http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1083 Lydia Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:09:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1083 Don't move anywhere until AFTER you are married.<br><b>References : </b><br> Don’t move anywhere until AFTER you are married.
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]]> By: acmeraven http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1082 acmeraven Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:32:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1082 Keep your American citizenship at all costs.<br><b>References : </b><br> Keep your American citizenship at all costs.
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]]> By: hog rider http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1081 hog rider Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:56:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1081 tell him that crossing the border and living and working there will make you an illegal alien...maybe all americans should do that especially since all the jobs are there.. move to mexico and become an illegal alien.....<br><b>References : </b><br> tell him that crossing the border and living and working there will make you an illegal alien…maybe all americans should do that especially since all the jobs are there.. move to mexico and become an illegal alien…..
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]]> By: carly http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1080 carly Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:37:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1080 Guadalajara is a huge city with many gorgeous neighborhoods. But like any big city, there is poverty and run down neigborhoods as well. There are any retired Americans living there around the lake area who love it. No doubt this will be a tremendous change for you. For one thing, what will you do there all day?? Can you still pursue your real estate goals there, or is there another job to pursue? Other than just relocating, you need to think about living conditions and career opportunities . I highly recommend making a trip there with your fiance first to see where you will live.<br><b>References : </b><br> Guadalajara is a huge city with many gorgeous neighborhoods. But like any big city, there is poverty and run down neigborhoods as well. There are any retired Americans living there around the lake area who love it.

No doubt this will be a tremendous change for you. For one thing, what will you do there all day?? Can you still pursue your real estate goals there, or is there another job to pursue? Other than just relocating, you need to think about living conditions and career opportunities .

I highly recommend making a trip there with your fiance first to see where you will live.
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]]> By: Jane Barleycorn http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1079 Jane Barleycorn Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:59:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1079 This will have to be your personal choice. Guadalajara is great but would not know what to tell you about jobs. I tried to get a job in Mexico before and it is not that simple. You need a work permit. You don't sound ready to move.<br><b>References : </b><br> This will have to be your personal choice. Guadalajara is great but would not know what to tell you about jobs. I tried to get a job in Mexico before and it is not that simple. You need a work permit. You don’t sound ready to move.
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]]> By: ~REDD~ http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1078 ~REDD~ Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:30:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1078 I think that you should always do what will make you happy in the long run. I too, had to choose between my career in the military and my man. I chose him. Unfortunately, when I came back from Gemany to be with him he had found someone else. It eventually put strain on not only me as a soldier but on my personal life because I now live in a city that I hate being in. Take it from a woman who knows, if you fiance loves you it will be very easy to tell him that Mexico is not what you want.<br><b>References : </b><br> I think that you should always do what will make you happy in the long run. I too, had to choose between my career in the military and my man. I chose him. Unfortunately, when I came back from Gemany to be with him he had found someone else. It eventually put strain on not only me as a soldier but on my personal life because I now live in a city that I hate being in. Take it from a woman who knows, if you fiance loves you it will be very easy to tell him that Mexico is not what you want.
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]]> By: Hedda Lettuce http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1077 Hedda Lettuce Fri, 11 Dec 2009 15:59:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1077 Do some research on that city. See if they have FRESH, CLEAN WATER, electricity, the kind of food you'll find in the markets. Look at the job market. (When I went into Tijuana there was a taco stand on every corner, but I didn't see any stray cats, dogs, or rodents.......)<br><b>References : </b><br> Do some research on that city. See if they have FRESH, CLEAN WATER, electricity, the kind of food you’ll find in the markets. Look at the job market.

(When I went into Tijuana there was a taco stand on every corner, but I didn’t see any stray cats, dogs, or rodents…….)
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]]> By: Kevin B http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help/comment-page-1#comment-1076 Kevin B Fri, 11 Dec 2009 15:52:59 +0000 http://www.kosmikostyposonline.com/realestate-broker/my-fiancee-has-asked-me-to-move-with-him-to-mexico-help#comment-1076 well if you live in LA you have already lived in Mexico anyways what's the difference. I wouldn't go Mexico can be dangerous especially in the no resort areas and especially for an American. I agree you have to make sacrifices and compromise but that seems like a really big one. How long have you known him for? How long have you been engaged? tell him only time you're running to the border is when you go to Taco Bell. :) Just thought I would try to lighten the situation. Maybe if you did end up going you could get a Real Estate License there, I still would really consider everything friends, family culture changes etc.<br><b>References : </b><br>my opinon well if you live in LA you have already lived in Mexico anyways what’s the difference.

I wouldn’t go Mexico can be dangerous especially in the no resort areas and especially for an American. I agree you have to make sacrifices and compromise but that seems like a really big one. How long have you known him for? How long have you been engaged?

tell him only time you’re running to the border is when you go to Taco Bell. :) Just thought I would try to lighten the situation.

Maybe if you did end up going you could get a Real Estate License there, I still would really consider everything friends, family culture changes etc.
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